how to teach your children colors

 

I want to share with you all the ways I have been able to make learning fun and effective for Elizabeth. Essentially, as soon as your baby is brought home she is learning new things. I believe it is our responsibility as parents to be our children’s first, and most influential teachers.

They learn from us. They learn how to behave, how to communicate, manners, and all the new things like colors, shapes, numbers, and letters… I love working with Elizabeth and the sheer joy that comes when she gets something! Currently, we are working on identifying her letters, she knows a good handful of them and constantly asks, “what letter is that” when she sees words. She mastered colors and shapes a long time ago, but I wanted to share this for any other mama out there looking for a great way to teach their baby.

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When it came to colors, I basically focused on one color for a few solid days, and then I would move on to another one. You could do one a week, or one a day depending on your child.

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After I showed her the color and we talked about it briefly, we would go around the house (or even just her bedroom) and collect items that were the color we were learning.

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We made a game of it. Throughout the day I would ask her, “what color is this”, or, “can you find something orange”. And she picked up on it relatively quick and loved bringing me things that were the color of the day. We even took the learning into the bathtub at night.

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I didn’t take pictures of this, but we also did a lot of coloring and painting with the color of the day. I would usually give her a little of the specific color craft paint and card stock and let her go to town. She still loves painting.

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I also tried to incorporate food into the color guessing game. We would have extra strawberries, pineapple, smoothies, berries, cheeses and she’d have a whole plate of one color. Being a foodie, this was fun for her.

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My advice, regardless of what you’re teaching, is to have fun! Make it hands on, and let your child be your guide on how much you do and how in depth you take it. I found, that children are much more capable of learning and retaining new things than I imagined. Elizabeth craves learning new things, and if I don’t keep her engaged, she gets into other things. You don’t have to keep a strict curriculum, just do something and make it fun! And keep in mind that what works for some may not work for all, you know your baby the best. And, please don’t compare your children to others. As moms, this is so hard, but as long as you are doing your best, there is no need to compare, every child is different – they grow and learn at different paces. This is one reason I love the Montessori approach at learning.

How do YOU incorporate learning new things into your child’s day?

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what I learned from monkey joes

 

This weekend we had the privilege of keeping our friend’s little girl. She is only 8 months older than Elizabeth, and they totally love each other. It was Elizabeth’s first sleep over.

Even though they love each other, and get super excited to see each other, they had their moments… And so did I. We already knew it was going to be too cold to do anything fun outside, so we planned to take the girls to Monkey Joes, which is a jump around place with lots of bounce houses and things.

Both girls are mostly potty-trained, Elizabeth a little less than the other. I remembered about 3 minutes after we got in the car that I forgot to remind Elizabeth to potty before we left, so we pulled over so I could put a diaper on her for the ride, just in case. It was too late. She peed in her car seat. I stripped her down and changed her clothes. And as a frazzled mom, without thinking, I put her right back in her wet seat.

The rest of the ride I felt like such a bad mama. Who forgets that they’re “potty training” their daughter. And then, she started walking towards the door, and I realized what I did, as the back of her pants were wet. Thankfully, there is a dollar store right beside Monkey Joes. Andrew ran in and grabbed an outfit and I got us all paid and ready to jump.

And then it happened. I went to the bathroom with the girls, to change Elizabeth’s clothes (again) and let them potty. As I was telling them how much fun we were going to have, and still secretly trying to calm my own mind, another mother in the handicap stall was yelling at her toddler son. He was whiny, and I don’t know the circumstances, I don’t know what happened before they got to the bathroom, but I do know she kept telling him to “shut up”… At least 4 or 5 times, in the time it took me to wash the girls hands, she told her innocent child who wasn’t even talking yet to “just shut up… or we will go home”.

You can imagine the look I shot her as she emerged from the stall. And I probably would have kept giving them to her, had she ever looked up from her phone while her child happily played with mine. I so wanted to ask, “so is that how your parent’s talked to you”, but it’s not my business.

Suddenly, I didn’t feel like a bad mama. There were many other mamas that reassured me that day, that I am in fact not a bad mama after all.

For two days, I’ve been thinking that maybe I just don’t get out enough. I cannot imagine ever speaking to my daughter that way, even when she is defiant and fussy. But this morning, in my 5:00 bootcamp class, I took all that bad energy, and came home refreshed to knew thinking.

We are too hard on ourselves sometimes. Sure, there are obviously some mama’s who could take some lessons (which makes me soooo sad, especially for that particular little boy), but it isn’t our job to judge them, either…

So it’s a new week, and a new chance to be the best mommy’s we can be… Here’s to that, it’s Monday, refreshed mindset, new chances. Give yourself a break, Mama. You are great! The days seem so long, but we know the weeks go by so fast…

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cinderella, sleeping babies, time

 

Today, Elizabeth fell asleep in my arms for probably the first time in over a year.

You see, she was never one to have to be rocked to sleep. Up until November when we transitioned her to a big girl bed after she decided she could climb out of her crib, we always rocked, read books, and sang right before bedtime. And when she was younger, we’d do the same routine for nap time. But now that she’s in a big girl bed, we usually just sit in the floor and read now, and I sit beside her bed after she’s tucked in to say her prayers (which hasn’t changed, we’ve always done it even when she was in a crib).

But today, at nap time, which is a real struggle lately since she can open her door, or blatantly defy sleep and everything now… She fell asleep while I rocked her.

And in that moment, the clock stopped. The humungous mess in her room disappeared. The to-do list and mountain of laundry didn’t exist. The major meltdown she threw at the post office didn’t matter anymore. There was peace, even if just for a few moments, and all was right with the world. I found myself wiping my tears with her blankey and nuzzling my nose into her hair. I couldn’t help but cry.

I can’t decide whether they were tears of joy or tears of sadness. You see, she is my world. Even during the moments when she is as stubborn and defiant as I am, she is essentially my happy. But it makes me sad that she has grown so quickly. The time has gone too fast. The other night as I was double checking on her before I went to bed, I stood over her for the longest time just amazed at how big she’s gotten. She’s no longer a baby, but a little girl. A talkative, free-spirited, busy little girl. The days seem soooo long, and then you look back and a whole month or year has passed.

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And I couldn’t help be convicted. The mess and the to-do list will always be there. There will always be calls to make and dinners to cook, but these days are short, Mamas. We should make them count. [There’s a little family in the next county who just lost their grandma and three year old girl Saturday after a terrible car accident, and the news just shatters me. I can’t even follow their story for updates on facebook, it just breaks me apart.]

Of course, all of this came today after I heard the Cinderella song for the first time on the way home from the store. It too, brought me to tears. But I HAVE to share…

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It reminds me so much of Elizabeth. Almost every night, she pulls her Daddy to dance with her. She’ll pull him up off the couch if a song comes on, and it always makes my heart so full. And at some point every day, she still begs me to “ring around the rosies, mama”! (hence the name of the blog)

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When was the last time you took a step back and really savored these moments we have?!? We never know how long they might last.

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Monday

 

Monday Night…

As I was looking back over the month’s cell phone pictures I can’t help but feel blessed. Part of me can’t believe the calendar says the 28th, but then I look back at all we’ve already done this month.

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We’ve cleaned out a ton. Organized a lot of things. Made some fun messes. Celebrated my birthday. Celebrated my uncle’s birthday. Had 3 date nights. Redid my office. Taken a couple of steps towards our future. Started another semester of college. Ran 20 miles. Started a bootcamp class. Lost a couple pounds. Began a new challenge that’s open to all of you. Eaten a lot of fruit. Drank a lot of hot tea and cold water. Watched the entire series of Private Practice.  Surpassed the past 28 months in my business. Began new routines. Completely potty trained our 30 month old. Started making 10 minute meals. Bought plane tickets to Dallas in March and Orlando in April. Found out I’ll also be flying to San Francisco in May. Signed up for The Color Run. Went to the dentist (twice). Gave Elizabeth her first haircut (and gave her bangs after she lost them all with HFMD).

Thoroughly enjoyed every single day so far living with more intentions… 

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monday, zoo, loretta lynn, parties, and more!

 

  • Is it just me or have the last few weeks just flew by?!
    Ours have been jam-packed with fun things. A little bit of work and a whole lot of play.
  • Last Sunday, on Veteran’s Day, our zoo was having free admission for vets and their families. Considering we hadn’t been there this year (shockingly) we took advantage of the beautiful day. So thankful we did.
  • We’ve been doing a little Christmas shopping, but I generally make most of our gifts – you’ll see some of them in here (I have to be careful about posting them, because I don’t want to spoil any surprises).
  • Thanksgiving was AMAZING this year. One of the best ones I can recall. I didn’t take any pictures that day because I was too busy soaking up the day. It was a quiet day, with my immediate family. After dinner, the men played with their new toys and the girls watched old home movies and went through the sales papers! That night, the men took the babies home, and I went out with my aunt and cousin. It’s a crazy tradition, but we always have so much fun and create so many memories.
  • Friday was Andrew’s birthday! I don’t care how old you are, you’re never too old for a birthday party in my book. Our family values every one so much more now. And we are all there to celebrate! Of all the meals I could have prepared, Andrew wanted a frozen pizza party (gross, huh?). I guess since we rarely eat already prepared food, or junk food for that matter, he thought he’d make a party of it… haha. I’m thankful for Amy’s organic gluten free pizzas!
  • Saturday, I cleaned out all day and worked on a school project (did you know I not only run a business and blog, but I’m in the midst of finally getting a degree) while Andrew went out with a friend. We rendezvoused for sushi later.
  • Sunday, was an at-home, self-declared family day!! Just the 3 of us. We put on the traditional Loretta Lynn Christmas album I grew up listening to and decorated for Christmas and put up the tree. Sipped hot chocolate (it’s cold here), and had left over Thanksgiving for dinner.
  • I wish you could have seen Elizabeth’s face when we cut the tree lights on. This Christmas is already fun! We could just skip all of the presents, because the magic and wonder in her eyes has already been more than I ever expected. It’s going to be a great season. She keeps walking around smiling and saying, “looooook, Mama!”. Love it.

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And if you actually looked through all of those pictures, here’s my favorite Loretta Lynn Christmas song… Mama always said, “we’ll have a good ol’ country Christmas this year”, and we always have. This year is no exception!

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It’s been a full few weeks! Full of fun and new things!

Elizabeth is 1 day shy of being 28 months old, which is CRAZY to me. How did those months go by so fast? She is not a baby anymore, but a little girl. A little girl who is almost officially potty trained and sleeping in a “big girl bed” as of this past week. The transition to the big girl bed happened because she figured out how to escape her crib. She is a MONKEY! The other day I found her on top of her play house! The switch has been both challenging and comical. I usually find her passed out in the floor when I go to check on her. I keep telling myself she is just exploring her new freedom and that she will eventually stay in her bed. She has done great potty training, too! So proud of her! I am way overdue for a “dear elizabeth” post…

Anyway, besides the potty training and crib change, our days have been full of painting pumpkins, running and playing at the park, trick or treating, and savoring the few sunny days we have left before winter.

I have also been very busy behind the scenes here planning 2 Christmas series for you! And planning out 2013! Be sure that you are subscribed to my newsletter to get all the latest updates, weekly tips for creating balance, and exciting upcoming events!

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    Here’s to a new week! And savoring every minute of the time we have. Making big plans and dreaming big dreams for 2013!
    ps. any potty training for nap and bedtime would be appreciated!
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surprise weekend

Whew, it has been an amazing weekend! Fun and full and pretty much perfect! Andrew called me Friday afternoon on his way home from work and told me to pack a bag! It’s the first time we have spontaneously took a weekend trip since Elizabeth was born. We use to take off to NYC or Boston every month or so when we lived in CT, but then came Elizabeth and life got in the way.

I love that man so much! I love weekends like this!  He knew exactly what I needed. We took a three hour trip down to Chatanooga, TN. It was so nice to get away from reality and work for a few days. I try not to “work” on the weekends, but I always find myself checking emails and doing other things. It was so nice to have an UNPLUGGED weekend together!

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Our hotel was really nice! We are big fans of Marriots. Andrew said he liked this one because it reminded him of Shaklee! I had to agree! Elizabeth did amazing! This was only the 2nd time she’s stayed in a hotel (or away from home period). She loved pushing the elevator buttons, and even wanted Kitty to push them! It was really cute! We got there past bed time and she said “want night night” pretty much as soon as we got to our room! She is so my girl the way she loves her sleep!

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Saturday morning we took Elizabeth to the aquarium! She LOVES fish! She almost hyperventilates she gets so excited when she sees them! This aquarium double scored because they had Nemo and “Rio”! She also loved watching the penguins jump off into the water and seeing the silly otters and hundreds of turtles. She did not, however like the snake! Told ya, she was my girl!

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We got to play in the water for a little while before having a major “nap time” melt down! It was such a fun mini trip! We will definitely be doing more! She is so use to routine that she was so ready for a nap that I didn’t even bother dressing her before our trek home. She couldn’t decide if she wanted her Bunnies or sleep! Love her!

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Andrew also surprised me on the way back to Nashville with an amazing necklace from Lisa Leonard! He knows how to make my heart flutter! If you didn’t already know, I LOVE butterflies! We met some friends on the way home for a play date and then had dinner with several of his co-workers!

Sunday I spent the day with my bffl and her new baby boy! I love the new baby smell so much! It poured rain all day so the three of us snuggled up on the couch and watched a movie in the evening!

Today, my sister-in-law and her family and new baby boy came over for the day! It was so nice! And I officially have baby fever! Everyone I know is having babies. Letting God lead us though.

I love weekends like this! It was so perfect! Andrew knew just what I needed. And all of the family and friends were the icing on the cake! Tomorrow would be my brother’s 21st birthday. It is sure to be a hard day, so send prayers for our family if you don’t mind. We will still be celebrating his 18 years tomorrow night like we have the past 2 birthdays without him.

What did you do this weekend?!? Do you love spontaneous trips as much as I do!?

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vegas bound {with excitement and worry}

I have been planning this trip on and off since January. Shaklee has been gracious enough to invite me out to their annual global conference to recognize my achievements on stage. About a month ago I finally talked myself into committing to going not just for all of the training and growing I could personally use, but because I know I need to set the example for my rapidly growing team!

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While I am honored and so incredibly excited, I am also worried about leaving my baby girl for the first time. She has never stayed with anyone for longer than a couple of hours at a time, so I am nervous for her. I think I will be fine. I know all mama’s need a break from time to time, and so I welcome the chance to grow and dance with friends in Vegas, but I am nervous that she will not understand and will miss me being with her 24-7.

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As a work at home mom, I have to get use to traveling a little more now. There will be Blissdom in Dallas come March and other speaking engagements I have arranged as well. But I am still fearful.

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The shootings this morning in Wisconsin have me even more rattled. I can’t shake the “what-ifs”. What if Elizabeth gets sick or hurt while I’m gone. Worse, what if something tragic happens to me on my travels? While I have complete and total faith that this is what God has called me to do right now, and while I know that if it’s my day to go – it won’t matter if I’m home playing with my baby or in Vegas, those thoughts still creep up.

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Will Elizabeth know how much I love her? Will she remember all of the snuggles and the 10,000 books I’ve read? Will she remember the crazy hours we spend dancing around the house jamming out to “Jesus loves me” radio on Pandora? Will she remember the prayer I pray over her bed every night when I lay her down? Will she miss the midnight visits to her room just to make sure she is okay one last time? Will she continue to be fed good, whole foods? Will she remember the sound of my voice when I’ve sung “You are my Sunshine” for the millionth time? Will she remember the way I smell when we take a bubble bath together? Will she know how much she’s changed me? Will she know how much I love her?

Like I said, I know that God is in control, and I am sure that everything will be fine! I will go and learn and cross more achievements off my list, and Lord willing, return home next Sunday to a little girl happy to see her mama! 

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I will keep you updated via instagram and facebook while I am away! Please say a little prayer for us though?

Hope you all have a great week, too!!! I have a couple of fun posts lined up for you! Including one BIG post I wrote exclusively for Allora Handmade! Eeek!

while you’re here, check out:

how to get a handle on your time

reorganize and clean out beneath your sink

my favorite stuffed peppers (mexican style or italian)

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happy birthday, elizabeth

 

Baby girl, I can hardly fathom that you are TWO! I have no idea how that happened so fast, but I feel like we just had your 1st birthday last month, and that you were born a few months before that.

It is crazy to look back at your pictures and see how much you have changed so quickly. I never knew I could love so much, until they laid you in my arms for the first time.

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It wasn’t just me that loved you. You are loved by so many! Just look at NaaNaa & Aunt Andie’s face.

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holding you for the first time was the best feeling in the world. I was so exhausted, so relieved, but most of all, so so happy!

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from the minute you were born, you have been alert! Bright, happy, beautiful – then and now.

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the day we brought you home was one of the happiest, but scariest days of my life. I had no idea what to do with you, and you screamed the entire first night (turns out you were not getting much milk).

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By 2 weeks, we had you somewhat figured out.

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We love you so much, Princess. More than we could ever tell you, but I sure hope you can feel it and see it! You are our miracle!

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Happy Birthday!!!

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Elizabeth’s 1st Birthday

 

It is absolutely unbelievable to me that Elizabeth will be 2 in just a couple of weeks. My heart actually hurts and flutters if I think about it too much. Two years already. I feel like I just brought her home from the hospital.

And then, I feel like I just had her 1st birthday party last week. Has it really already been another year? No way. Time is flying by WAY too fast, and as much as I soak up every second of every day with her, it still takes my breath away.

As we prepare for her 2nd birthday party, I thought I’d better finally show pictures from her 1st party. It seriously feels like it was just last week, so I’m sorry I’m just sharing them with you!

We had a polka dot cupcake theme! She was really still too little to care, but I sure thought it was cute. As a little word of caution, these were my preblogging days, so the pictures  aren’t great.

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Her birthday was on a Thursday so I of course had to make her cupcakes for her actual birthday! This was her first ever taste of cake! Needless to say, she loved it! My niece and nephew helped me make them!

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After we got her cleaned up, we let her see the present from us! It was a dollhouse from my Mama’s that I refinished! To this day, she LOVES it! And I love that Mama had a little part of it!

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I made her invites and all of the labels. Saved a ton of money doing it myself.

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Here are some of the treats! Icecream cups (so much easier than scooping), chocolate cake pops, chocolate and vanilla cupcakes with my top secret frosting!

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the birthday girl emerging from her nap and getting dressed to see it all for the first time! I put a clothes line of pictures from her first year on the back wall, and made the pompoms from tissue paper.

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I designed all of the labels and cupcake toppers in Microsoft Word and just printed them on cardstock (same for invitations).

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She wasn’t so sure about her smash cake!

We served pizzas on the back deck that was also decorated, so that the kids could play in the yard. We had little pools and play stations set up for them to run around and play on out back. But apparently, I didn’t get any pictures of that!

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LOVE my girl! Cannot believe she’s already 1 and almost 2.

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Her outfit came from this Etsy shop whom I LOVE! We’ve ordered several things from her!

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I love you, Elizabeth! It is sooo hard for Mommy to believe that you’re another year older already. You are definitely the most incredible gift God could have ever blessed us with. You are amazing and smart and sososo beautiful! You have your BB’s eyes, my stubbornness, and your Daddy’s persistence so we all know you will do BIG things. It has been pure joy, the past 2 years. I wouldn’t trade a second of the time with you for anything in the world. I hope that one day you know how much I love you, Bean. You are my sunshine for sure!

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